Are you trying to get him to love you? Does it seem like a hopeless endeavor and you're ready to give up? Have you been through too many failed relationships and you don't know what to try anymore? The dating game can get nasty sometimes and it's easy to get heartbroken and ultimately become embittered. But know that love is out there and the perfect man for you is waiting to meet you. You just have to know what to do to win him over when you do see him.
The worst thing you can do is try to rush into this. Chic flicks and romance novels give the impression that love is fast and comes easily, but real life rarely works out that way. You need to give yourself time and the more patient you are, the truer the love will be.
Look at it this way. If you meet a guy and you have a preconceived notion that you'll want to marry him within two months, you're setting unrealistic goals, you're going to feel the pressure to win him over fast and you'll end up putting too much stress and strain on what could be a great relationship. Too much strain and the guy will buckle under and give up.
Most guys don't want a relationship to be that strenuous.Give yourself six months to just get to know the guy. It might seem like a long time, but it's over the course of this time that you'll really discover who this guy is. You'll see him in a variety of settings and in a various situations, each one divulging a little more about who he is. And know that he's doing the same to you. He's checking you out, gauging how good you make him feel while he's with you and over the course of this time his emotions are slowly building, all without an ounce of pressure from you.
When he realizes that you have all the qualities he's been looking for and he sees that you continue to be fun to be with, his heart will open up and he'll fall in love with you.
The worst thing you can do is try to rush into this. Chic flicks and romance novels give the impression that love is fast and comes easily, but real life rarely works out that way. You need to give yourself time and the more patient you are, the truer the love will be.
Look at it this way. If you meet a guy and you have a preconceived notion that you'll want to marry him within two months, you're setting unrealistic goals, you're going to feel the pressure to win him over fast and you'll end up putting too much stress and strain on what could be a great relationship. Too much strain and the guy will buckle under and give up.
Most guys don't want a relationship to be that strenuous.Give yourself six months to just get to know the guy. It might seem like a long time, but it's over the course of this time that you'll really discover who this guy is. You'll see him in a variety of settings and in a various situations, each one divulging a little more about who he is. And know that he's doing the same to you. He's checking you out, gauging how good you make him feel while he's with you and over the course of this time his emotions are slowly building, all without an ounce of pressure from you.
When he realizes that you have all the qualities he's been looking for and he sees that you continue to be fun to be with, his heart will open up and he'll fall in love with you.
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