Are you eager to get your man to make a commitment to you and he's not budging? Have you talked about it, telling him what you want, but he's not caving in? Do you think he'd change his mind if you threatened to leave him? That threat could very well blow up in your face, so before you make that move, ask yourself if you're truly prepared to leave. If not, take a look at this article and see where you might have veered off course.
If you've decided to drop everything you've ever had going on in your life to spend more time with him, you might be putting more strain on the relationship than you realize. Even if he's madly in love with you, time apart is important in virtually all relationships. Think yours is different? Don't just assume this because the idea pleases you. If you're going to be spending every waking moment with him, make sure he's that eager to be with you.
Even so, if a commitment is what you want, time apart could make him miss you and long to be with you even more. Spend enough time apart and he might even wonder what you're up too. Could he be losing you? That'll get him moving.
However, you still need to consider where your relationship is. Have you taken control of everything? Are you as happy as can be because he always lets you have your way? Is this the perfect relationship because you always win an argument?
While you might be seeing this in a positive light, he could be growing weary of your constant need to control, your inability to let him do things his way and your confrontational manner.
If you want him to give up the single life and sign up for a life long commitment with you, you better be sure that time with you is more pleasant than time alone. If not, you might be the one who'll end up alone.
Tending to his needs, making sure he feels happy and fulfilled in the relationship and giving him reason to believe that life with you will always be like this, he'll be more than happy to commit.
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