Obedient and dutiful to her husband
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:
"As soon as women are when you look at him and he happy, if you obey his commands, if you are not he will take care of your possessions and keep the honor."
The wise Muslim woman always wants to please Allah by obedience to her husband in matters that are not sinful, devoted to her husband and always tried to please her husband. He will be pleased with the inconvenience or hardship of his life, as has been noted in the history of personal unggulnya Islm Fatimah
r.ha.
The true Muslim woman, willing to serve in the house for her and her husband knew right into it. Indeed it
is right that the great Messenger as saying.:
"If I want to order seseorg bow down to someone else, I would have ordered women prostrate
to her husband. "
(Hadith Sahih narrated Hassan Tarmidzi)
Adherence is a major cause of the woman as saying Allah's paradise:
"When a woman has five daily prayers, fasting in the month, obedient to her husband, keeping her vagina,
would say to him: Go into the garden from any door you like. "
(Narrated by Ibn Majah)
In addition, Islam also threatened by sin, the wrath and curse of the woman who turned out this warning:
"When a man calls his wife kekatilnya but he refused to come to him, and her husband sleep in
the angels would surely upset him so melaknatnya dawn (morning). "
(Sahih Muslim)
The wife and Privacy Solehah
- Obedience to her husband and Kindness
- Kindness To Mother-in-law and family HONOR
- Be friendly with the Trying to Find a Husband and Pleasure
- Do not Break The key
- Stand up and Share Views With his side.
- Helps men obey Allah
- Mastering the Mental husband
- Decorated For Husband
- Found in joy and gratitude Husband
- Sharing of Grief and Joy Husband
- In addition to men stare down
- Not Telling The Other Woman to husband.
- Creating Peace, relaxation and peace of Households
- Tolerant and forgiving
- Strong personality and Wisdom
"And among His signs is that He created his wives for you from yourselves, that ye may
tend to find rest in them, and He ordained between you love and affection. Indeed, in that there really are signs for people who think. "
[Surah Ar-Rum 30:21]
HOW TO BE WISE exemplary
1. Play any role in the balance of her as a wife, lover, friend, support, encouragement, advice, listeners, educators and pendoa.
2. Always loyal to all the husbands in all things that are allowed by Islamic law. But she did not have to obey in matters involving disobedience.
3. Treat every husband needs carefully, especially sexual needs. For husbands, sexual relations were evidence and strengthen the rule of love is important.
4. Understand the husband and a lot of red tape to be patient. Use of existing impulse in the women themselves to understand the needs and expectations without the husband called.
5. Teach her husband about what you'd expect in wisdom. Sometimes you have to remind her husband up to 200 times for him to understand clearly. Be patient when giving orders to her husband.
6. Decorated and make sure you always neat and attractive to their husbands. Discuss with your spouse the way he looks like. Do it at will.
7. Forgive her husband and another person each night before bed and ask for forgiveness from her husband. Kemaafannya clean heart, heal the sick, the beautification of the face, attracting love and prayer.
8. Pray for her husband all the time. Prayer strengthen your spirit with the spirit of her husband. Subsequently formed a deep affection and lasting.
9. Make sure your husband than to the parents or others. But make sure you are polite to the parents to get good fortune.
10. Blessed is the birth of a reasonable total. Take care and educate children as possible. Do not expect others too to educate your child.
11. Make sure your husband and ask permission each time out of their homes or seek permission in the long term. Out without a permit is guilty.
12. Avoid the queen control. The Prophet said, husband and wife are forced to obey the household will perish and be destroyed.
13. Look her husband with a gentle, smiling, sweet words, touch, hear cakapnya and hugs him while commuting to work.
14. Temankan husband to eat while you're eating. Many husbands feel neglected when forced to eat alone often. Eat a meal with her husband.
15. Occasional bathing with her husband. This helps to bring love and intimacy between husband and wife. Bathing with the sunna.
16. Treat her husband with love and care when sick. A touch of sweet words and a positive act as a potent medicine.
17. Mengalahlah to the husband for the things that should be. Frustrated husband and wife is less credible when the fight or refuse to obey instructions. This causes the husband of stress.
18. Cover yourself against any other man. Make sure you cover the private parts thoroughly to the success of the world and the hereafter.
19. Beloved husband completely and fortify myself a husband. Your husband is the best man for you to follow God's plan. And you are the best woman for your husband.
20. Keep the secrets of her husband. There is a wife without a husband so bad to tell a friend or other family members. This act is wrong and sinful.
21. God does not see his wife who is not grateful for the good of her husband. Therefore, be thankful for a husband to do good.
22. Most of the inhabitants of hell are women because many women who swear curse and are ungrateful to their husbands. Avoid treason or sabotage her husband.
23. Avoid hurting the husband to act lazy, fight, insult, complain, enslave her husband, arrogant, or do things that husbands forbid.
24. Do not accept guests who are not muhrim when her husband not at home. This practice will destroy the family.
25. Surprise her husband to pray night and his wife were also similar to the night prayer. It is an interesting practice guides and explains the grave.
26. In the case of polygamy, do not tell your honey to divorce her husband. This is a very big mistake. Learn to be patient and shared securely.
27. The wife requested a divorce without any sail, will not enter paradise. Therefore, do not ask for divorce if there is no reason that allowed Islamic law.
28. The fort itself from Shaitan, the reading Basmalah, ta'awuz, section chair, praying 5 times, always in a state of ablution and read the Fatihah with paragraph 3 'Qul'.
29. Maintain a personal sense of shame in women. Sense of shame for a good man. Sense of shame for women it is very good. Women who lost sense of shame due dignity and dignity.
30. When husbands work back, give him a rest 30 minutes before asking lots of questions. Pass on good news and bad news less.
31. Make the Quran as a friend in the face of problems, anxiety and pain. Eat well isyrak and sun worship.
32. Repentance now before its too late. Tree apology from her husband all the time because usually the husband predeceases the wife.
33. Stay away from bad feelings towards her husband thought, law, law duai, neighbors and others. What we think is acting as a prayer and may occur.
34. Think well to all the provisions of God. Determine what God is best for us and for all those around us. People do not seem ignorant of this fact.
35. Meet all of the rights of God. What God asked, do everything. Completely avoid what is prohibited. What God gave us to get pleased and grateful.
36. Identify the root causes of our anger. Are we too sensitive, disorder, depressed, not being appreciated, people take our rights, and marriage problems. After knowing the source, we easily solve the problem.
37. Understand the effects of anger. Ugly face, heart disease, high blood pressure, flu, viral infections, brittle bones, dead lust, broken household. Thus, control anger.
38. Mingle with the good people. Find new friends. People have many good friends do not fail in the world and the hereafter. To get a good friend, be a good friend.
39. Make the law at home. When husbands get angry, we are quiet and patient. When we are angry, her husband was silent, patient, and coax us. Seventeen people are great signs of maturity.
40. Rusty heart medication with prayers of repentance, forgiveness, read the Quran, charity, sorry, forgive all the people, give people food and make friends with the pious or good things.
41. Welcomes the husband all the time with a fun way. Float away before opening the door welcoming the return of her husband. Give water and squeeze the neck and shoulders of her husband every evening.
42. A soft voice to cure and treat mental pressures faced by the husband. Indahkan and soften the sound each time talking to her husband.
43. When having sex with her husband, the best display. As far as possible meet the requirements of the husband. The husband felt very disappointed and hurt when the motion was rejected.
44. Angry husband chosen with wisdom. Do not answer even though we are right. Explain the real thing when the husband has subsided. Households were destroyed when the husband and wife co-ego.
45. Always honored her husband. Treat them like family. When our dear husband, we must honor those that we love her husband.
46. Jealousy is the nature of the believers and love mark. But her husband was jealous over the all-one and depressed. Continue to feel jealous when I pray that God saved our marriage.
47. Wife exemplary restraint from committing any sin. Small sins repeated a great sin. Immediately turn on the sin.
48. Do not let evil happen in our homes. Messages on themselves and family members to avoid evil. When do evil, God doth not at home.
49. Daily practice is the best wife exemplary prayer of repentance, forgiveness 70 times, the prayer intention, to forgive all people, think well of everyone and pray for your family and all our neighbors.
50. Balancing life with a clean heart, to correct the practice, making friends with good people, keep praying, blessing food, exercise and do all things possible.
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