A statement is no doubt that the best pleasures live in this world is a virtuous woman or wife as described by the Prophet Muhammad. Peace and happiness of life is linked closely with woman or wife and the happiness of a home There is a close relationship with the woman or wife and good deeds.
How to evaluate a good woman before married? In this case, the Prophet has stated by saying: "those who grow up in married atmosphere of righteousness, that the child has a habit of a close relationship with his parents.
"How to choose a spouse, a woman who lives in an atmosphere works, born of a noble and a seed sons of a prosperous, pious or good atmosphere including the three cases, daily life, family and good character.
Bedewi Yusof Ali, Yusuf Ali Bedewi, (Translated), Mohd Asri Muda Hashim and Abd Latif, the book Fundamentals Household Happiness In Islam, Da'wah Foundation Islamiah Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur, 1996, pp, 42. lists of women who have shunned the chosen to be a wife of the Al-Annanah means that women who complain a lot and every time feels burdened head when doing the jobwhether for himself or herself or for her husband.
In addition, Al-Mannanah also means that women bob up and down what was done to her husband, for example, I do this and that for you and for you while the next factor is that women's al-Hannanah The people longed for a husband, or children from partnership (marriage) with another man.
Meanwhile, Al-Haddaqah nor are women when see something, she would like to have with him is would urge, urge and compel the husband to buy it.
Next feature is the Al-Barraqah of women 24 hours spent in front of the vanity soface make-up looks interesting result is, not for her but for personal satisfaction and the Al-syaddaqah other women talk of magpies, nag that much because a lot of talking say the words that may offend husband and others.
Women like this, let us also with women who did not will be satisfied with giving her husband, but each of husbands has always denied.
In addition to the characteristics of a bad lifestyle women, there are other properties that need to be a bad man be careful when choosing a life partner, including women are not good at adapting to other people.
After his wife called, she was difficult to adapt to the environment above all Household again with her family, so had to control the husband of kindness to his parents. Wife that prevent good husband to his parents was the wife who will fail in creating happiness family.
Women are often bob up and down any of husband of the mother and often weigh by itself is not getting any of the her husband, while her husband was giving more than adequate, and her husband had given such a requested.
The Prophet Muhammad cautioned that men selecting women who are often grateful for of husbands and are always satisfied with what was prepared by the husband as saying:
"Women The most blessed, most were women easy to bear. "
(narrated by Ahmad).
There are also properties that may be extreme contributed to the hatred of the husband to the wife, the wife of stinginess and miserliness. This is because the wife stingy or miserly husband hard to stay real ringgitnya money, not to mention relatives in the the husband.
Wives, when husbands or parents for advice or Fiscal often argue, is among the wives of difficult to accept the advice or guidance.
Objected to invite argument and growing resentment lazy husband who makes her husband for advice, reprimand or talk to her. Attitude object also planted hatred, resentment, frustration, and depressed the will end with the destruction of the household.
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